Why Single Moms Can Successfully Be Their Own Boss and Work From Home
The single most challenging hurdle for single moms to overcome to become successful working from home is their fear and guilt. Single moms can and do feel guilty about many things from not having a father for their children, their children could have a better life if there was a second income, the amount of time spent working away from their children to provide an income, to... are they a good enough mother. Do not get me wrong, I have never regretted having my son. But, when it is late at night and I am exhausted and I still can't sleep, it is easy to let my guilt overwhelm me. It was just such a night that I thought, wouldn't it be great not to have to go to work. If I could only work at home then I could help with the soccer team, join the PTA and be a chaperone on field trips like other moms. Then, I realized I have no idea how to start working from home. What could I possibly do at home to earn enough income? How can I submit my son to such an insecure future? How can I tell him he may have to make do with less so that mom can work at home? What if it doesn't work out? How can I explain an absence from work on my resume? Then one day, the company I worked for closed. I had no job and no job prospects. I remembered what my boss once said to me. He said if he had his preference all his employees would be single mothers. I asked him why. He said single mothers are dependable, they can multi task and they want to please their bosses. I thought about it a while and admitted he did have a point. After further reflection I thought all the skills required to be a single mom are also required to work from home. First we are always figuring out who has the cheapest deals and where we can get the most for our money (research).Our children provide all the motivation we need to keep working.
Our lives are a constant juggling act between work, home, children and occasionally ourselves (multi tasking)
We have to be organized to make it through the day (organizational skills and the ability to prioritize).
We are constantly talking with our friends to see if they have a better way of doing things (networking).
Patience
Ok, I have the skills needed, now what could I possibly do at home to make enough income? This requires a good deal of self-reflection. I recommend first examining what you like to do and what you are good at. For example, if you love to surf the web, consider blogging and data entry. There are many opportunities and you will want to spend time researching them. If there are Yahoo Groups or internet forums for the work you are interested in, join them. I am still doing work for leads I got from groups I joined four years ago. Timing is important. The company I worked for closed at the beginning of the year. I was able to budget my income tax refund to supplement my unemployment until I started making money. Alternatively, you can start part-time while still employed. Try multiple jobs. In other words don't put all your eggs in one basket. Drop the jobs that are not successful and build up the ones that are. I started off doing four different jobs. Since then I have dropped two jobs and added one new job. Don't be too proud to accept help and support from the ones you love. This can be anything from financial assistance, if necessary, to emotional support. Friends invited my son and me to dinner at least once a week until I got on my feet. Sit your children down and carefully explain what it is you are trying to do and what impact it could have on their lives. My son told me he would rather spend more time with me than have more toys. I cried. Be patient. You may have to invest two to three months before you start seeing results. Don't be afraid to fail. So what if it that particular job opportunity didn't work out, we aren't perfect. Try something else. And lastly, believe and trust in yourself. You already have the skills you need to be successful.Mary Leslie has been successfully self employed for the past four years. She has made her income from working at home on the internet and she has found independent contracting work outside the home using the internet as a source. You can learn more about her work from home income at her blog at http://smomanddad.blogspot.com/ Article Source: [http://EzineArticles.com/?Why-Single-Moms-Can-Successfully-Be-Their-Own-Boss-...] Why Single Moms Can Successfully Be Their Own Boss and Work From Home
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